Challenge

The submissive woman is not easily satisfied. On one hand, she yearns for the safety, security and sense of ease that comes with understanding herself as she truly is; that of a woman with a submissive nature. She enjoys the peace of mind that this 'knowing' brings to her day and she feels 'whole'. She walks lightly through her days.

On the other hand, the submissive woman wants more. Along with the 'knowing', the sense of satisfaction, the peace of mind, and the happiness, there is an understanding that her dominant must be unpredictable and somewhat demanding. Whilst she wants to be his 'good girl'; to receive his praise and his admiration; she does not mind at all if he should care to show a little of the devious side of his nature. Peace and tranquillity is very nice, but where is the man who can have her breathing hard; incensed even?

The submissive woman may not take at all kindly to his demands and reprimands. She may spit fire and brimstone at the things he whispers into her ear; at the instructions he leaves on a note beside her bed; but her anger is in conflict with her state, should he feel between her legs.

The submissive woman is never more alive than in those moments when her kindly and loving dominant man should challenge her. She has disappointed and there is a price to pay for that. She may not enjoy the penalty, but then, why is she darn hot? Or better yet, she has done nothing wrong at all. He just feels like asking her to do something and watching her reaction.

The submissive woman may be hard to please, but I am not at all sure that the dominant man wants her any other way.