I have just been reading some words written by a dominant male friend of mine and I am greatly touched. In those words is the essence of what is great about a D/s relationship.
When two people get it right (and in my case, I speak of dominant males and submissive females, for I only know of that blend) both the man and woman is outrageously happy. Sure, there might be moments of tension and uncertainty as the Dom encourages his sub to submit to new challenges, but the love, respect and enjoyment is the overwhelming emotion that keeps them both on a heady high, year after year.
When it is so right, it appears so effortless. In fact,it is never effortless. Both team players work hard to ensure each other's pleasure. Yet, the work is not really work at all; or rather the sort of work that one relishes.
Like any relationship, a D/s relationship will stumble if the players become lazy or disengage. The happiness comes from such loving attention, on both sides. The dom may be frantically busy in his life, but he knows the importance of putting aside some quality time for his sub, however short that time may be. When he does attend to her, even for only a few minutes of the day, she feels his love, his admiration, his pleasure. Those few minutes, allow her (and I suggest, him) to float through their day independently.
With such pleasures to be had, it seems such a small price to pay. A D/s relationship at its best is the short road to paradise.
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It does take effort, to please the other, as well as taking effort to not get bogged down by the "little things." I agree that a D/s relationship is truly paradise, as it works when you work it.
ReplyDeletecutesy pah: Yes, it works when you work it. That is a good way of putting it.
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