I got home and made my owner and myself a poached egg on toast; had a little chat about various points of interest and then sat down to do my work. Simple. On track.
This is the danger moment. Perhaps if I were just to check the gmail...Ah yes, a comment. Best reply to that; it's only polite.
Then, perhaps just a quick look at a pikki or two....Oh, that one's nice...and I could post it for all those deviants who come to my blog to look for smut. No harm in sharing...
So, I've done that now and it really is time that I went about my work, or something like what happened to this girl might happen to me. Wouldn't it be fun if Masters still spanked girls who procrastinate like in the good ole days...
Okay. Okay. I'm going to do my work.
You mean there are girls who don't get spanked for procrastination!? Goodness me, what a mistake that is. If procrastination was an olympic event, my very own little girl would win gold. Naughty, naughty, naughty. In fact I had to be particularly firm with her last night. I suspect I shall have to be firmer still.
ReplyDeleteAnon: What sort of procrastination does she get spanked for? I'm particularly fond of details.
ReplyDeleteThe short answer to that is that there is a pornographic site similar to pinterest. My little girl was busy 'building boards' of 'spanked girls', 'tied girls' and 'humiliated girls'.
ReplyDeleteI told her that as it was an hour before her bedtime I expected her to phone her mother as it had been some time since she had done so. She said she would, I reminded her twice and each time she was 'just finishing' 'just about to' and 'just about to momentarily.'
At 22.15 I called her over, stood her in front of me and pointed out that she now had the choice of not calling her mother and being in bed on time, or calling her mother and being late to bed. Which form of disobedience did she feel was preferable.
Interestingly we had a meeting of minds over the fact that there is no form of disobedience that is preferable. We agreed that the preferable situation would be for her to stop procrastinating and do what she was damned well told.
Being a helpful kind of chap I spent then until her bedtime with her over my knee while I emphasised the lesson for her.
This is a typical example, it might be reading a book, day dreaming, rearranging shelves, trying out different shades of nail polish. In fact anything you can think of except the very thing she is actually supposed to be doing.
If you are particularly fond of details I am happy to email you the long version. But I never email girls without being invited to do so. I shall leave that particular ball firmly in your court.
Anon: Very kind of you to elaborate. Thank you. It's interesting how we girls all seem to have an 'archilles' heel'. I do procrastinate, for sure, but rarely to the point that it becomes an issue. I annoy *myself* for wasting time but I don't miss deadlines because I couldn't tolerate the stress that would put on me. I have a 'things I must do' list running in my head all the time and whilst there are outstanding items on it, I am not entirely relaxed. So, it's a rare day when this is an issue with me in terms of my submission.
ReplyDeleteHowever, I do have one major issue. Years ago, my husband made a rule that I must not allow the petrol gauge of my car to reach E (for Empty). The penalty was a caning conducted in the thicket of a large park here and I've been there a few times to partake of my penalty. It kept me honest for a good two years until he got a bit soft about it and lately he's found the gauge on E a few times. I prefer to know where I stand on all such issues. I preferred to have a little bit of fear about the penalty and to be sure it would be given. For one thing, I adore the frisson between us over the matter and the thought of the caning *did* motivate me.
Only you would know this, but I wonder if your girl doesn't really mind the spanking too much, or doesn't dislike it enough that she would hurry herself along a bit more. In those instances where I have met disapproval, where even *I* consider myself unimpressive (and that' all a head job - nothing to do with physical pain/discomfort)I really don't want to ever feel that sort of disapproval again. In my 'doll' head space I've not the teeniest, tiniest interest in doing *anything* at all but exactly what I'm told and exactly what will earn me the highest praise.
It would be most kind of you to email me any further thoughts. Thank you.
In that case I shall email you a more in depth response. The almost empty fuel tank is in my opinion a safety issue. I have the same rule in place and there are quite severe penalties for breaking it.
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ReplyDeleteOuch. I too have an issue with procrastination, and I'm fairly sure I'd be good competition in the race for Olympic gold. I do get annoyed with myself for not doing stuff I should, and my partner has had to spank me several times for it, but I still seem to let time slip away from me. Like I said to him last night, I have too many things I could be doing which are stopping me from doing the things I should be doing. He just nodded and agreed.
Oops is that the time? I'd better go and do what he asked me to otherwise I really will be trouble. Sigh. Reading blogs is so much more fun. Stop by mine if you want, I always welcome visitors.
Kitten54: I think procrastination often stems from not being sure how one is going to go about something, or wanting to do something perfectly and the desire for perfection holding one back from doing anything at all. Other times, other activities hold more appeal. In terms of rituals or regimens that need to be accomplished, say, daily, there's that push and pull between getting on with it and not complying. In my experience not complying causes a lot of disharmony whilst complying makes everyone feel good. So, recognizing that procrastination has few good outcomes I try, as much as possible, to just get on with it. I was thinking about this on my way home just now and thinking that if I were to really think in depth about all that I have to accomplish this year, I'd just sit down and freak out; that it is best for me to think of accomplishing them all, one by one and step and step. And, that's the answer to procrastination, I think, just moving forward, step by step, but not sitting down and pretending that there isn't a bit of hill to climb. Good luck.
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