A submissive woman is a woman who is submissive. So, she is a woman (duh!) with a submissive nature. Therefore, even though she is submissive, she is still a woman, like any other woman. Women like to get things done and submissive women therefore like to get things done, too. There is no difference here.
Submissive women, being the submissive sort, tend to try to get all the things they want done themselves. Usually, this does not work out all that well, because there is more work in a household than she can usually manage on her own. Even if she lives alone, she may need a man for some things. She may, for example, not have the strength to do some tasks on her own, or she may not have the skills that a man may have, since perhaps the father taught motor mechanics to his son but not his daughter. (I know. I know. The water is getting very muddy.)
A submissive woman may not be very good at asking for help. That is entirely possible. On the other hand, the submissive woman may feel all right about asking, but find that she gets "fobbed off". So, her man may tell her that he'd be happy to do the task, or help with the task "later". He may say that he has "work to do first". She is not at all an unreasonable sort of girl, so she accepts this statement for what it is and waits patiently and quietly for the "later" to roll around.
She waits. She waits. She submissively waits some more. She mentions the task again eventually and he says that "soon" he can get to it. It should not be too much longer now.
Time goes by. Lots of time goes by. And, one day, when she least expects it, she explodes. She is done with waiting and it is time he took her seriously. Exactly when will he be available for the task, anyway?
He is a dominant man. Therefore he is a man (duh, again!) who happens to be comfortable dominating. He is aghast! His submissive has "freaked out" on him, and in such an unreasonable way! He, after all, has only been fobbing her off for eons. What can she be thinking?
He tries all the old standard techniques. She is to put her hands behind her back and listen to him in silence. She tries. She really tries but he's got her back up and whilst at this moment she is all woman, the submissive part is missing. She rejects his "dominance" outright. She wants an answer to her question and she wants it now. Just *when* will he be available?
He look into her eyes. She is dead serious. He has pushed her to her elastic limit. With threats of what will happen if she doesn't return to submissive mode fast, he retrieves the leaf blower. Maybe, he has an hour this Sunday afternoon, after all! He will dominate his landscape with his leaf blower and as she works beside him, in her mind she prepares to submissively thank him profusely for his contribution.
She makes a mental note to be particularly sweet and submissive this evening. She knows which side of her bread is buttered. There is always the possibility that the dominance of the landscape may not be quite enough dominating for one day. This thought occurs to her and, pure serendipity (!) she reaches out to him and kisses him on the lips. What a sweet, submissive girl she truly is!
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Sunday, June 21, 2009
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