It seems to be official, according to those in the know, that it's the women wanting to express their submission to a man (in a heterosexual relationship). It's the women expressing their intense frustration that they can't find a (good) man to submit to. It's the women who are ready, willing and waiting.
This is why I can't understand why there are people at the ready to train the submissive, but oh so few people who take it upon themselves to train the Dom.
I wrote these notes from something that Om wrote.
"A Dom snatches control. He has to want for her more than she wants for herself. He has to have the desire and the caliber to take her into the depths of her chaos, to hold her there no matters what happens and then he needs to have the skill, strength and stamina to bring her back and land her safely from her chaos and restore her to form."
Now, that takes some work and practice, doesn't it? Not necessarily innate?
It's no shame to get trained to perform this magic. They didn't call it 'the dark arts' for no reason.
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